hey mir! no, i want to reply! problem is i only tend to get time every few days and often that will get thwarted mid-reply sesh. i'm very fixed, heh, so i like to *maintain* and experience mild panic attacks when threads move really fast on here
okay yes saturn opp saturn is verrrry weird and sticky. i don't remember which thread that was tho! did i link to that awesome article on the opposition? i just got out of one of those relationships and it was very sort of for-better-or-worse and hard to get away from entirely and brought up a LOT in the areas of responsibility, which is great, but also packs a lot of potential for behaving IRresponsibly too, if you swing that way. corrective measures are completely voluntary, and with that, i was finally able to extract myself (responsibility toward MYSELF and his irresponsibility proving more tempting than treating me honourably). BUT yeah in general and with those less prone TO irresponsible behaviours, i think it is a rather *lovely* aspect actually. it's very sobering and grounded, even tho it does tend to create an on/off again dynamic to some extent (space to learn and apply the lessons it seems). so it could be really great!
and yeah mars/mars sounds hot. never had it personally, but dang, those who cj my mars in any capacity always get me going so i'm assuming that would be mutual/exponential with the conjunction!!